Wednesday, January 31, 2007

Red Box Karaoke

Yes, today we will go to Red Box to sing. This is a reunion for ex-, current, and future colleagues Karaoke. We have booked a room in the curve and will sing from 9p.m until 1a.m. One of my ex-colleague, IC, he calculate and found that during this 4 hours session, everyone have changes to choose 7 songs to sing. Mmm.. 7 songs, not sure it is enough for me or not. Hence I try to list down some MUST sing songs for tonight, like:
  • Eason chan - Under the fuji mount
  • Eric Wu - Thinking of who
  • Miriam Yeong - Small town big thing
  • Christina Aguilera - Beautiful
  • DiKe yu Niu zei - How many love can repeat
  • Gigi Leong - Actually love is so that hurt
  • Amei - I want happy
Can't wait until that time .. haha

By the way, I feel tremendous sorry to a friend couple weeks ago when I suddenly cancel the karaoke session due to some personal issue although I never miss any singing appointment.

Monday, January 29, 2007

Some thought

Love seems simple but not simple. It just can come in a sudden but it also can end without a reason. Sometimes it cannot be controlled, and it will feel easy as let the love come as come, and let it go as go. If you think so much, and keep on holding your opinion, it will be hard.


I don't think I can handle love wisely. I think I will be the one who over concern the love too until will make both party to tense or unhappy. It just that there are differences way of people in expressing love. Sometime people express the love in the way that not suitable to you. It start to make you feel misunderstanding. Everyone express the love in different way, sometime just because of the differ in love expression, it will end up with misunderstanding and discontinue of the love.

Sunday, January 28, 2007

Buying House vs Marriage

My colleagues are very surprise to know that I am searching for house now. They are wondering what have happened to me. They are now speculating I may getting marry soon.

Actually I think it is a dream for everyone to live together with people their love forever. Buy a house, then prepare to settle down and live the rest of the life busying earning money for the children education fund. When you old, at least you have child to rely on.

I searching for a house for me to have a own place to live. That is the main reason. No more than that. It will be good to have another half to help you to lower down the monthly payment of the housing loan, just that I think I still don't have the destiny of that. Need to pay by my own.

My main purpose of buying the house is to have my own space, can have some party, and at least a house that really is owned by me. However, it is very hard to find a house. Tough...

Updated : After checking some housing area, I think I next research will be in Puchong

Saturday, January 27, 2007

My Naughty Nephew




This is my little nephew. He is hyperactive and talkative. He can ask you a lot of funny question, and like to mess up my bed. If he bored, he will try to find me and ask me to play around with him. He just like to mess around with other people, and keep on asking you a lot of question, like we you go, who you go with and bla bla bla.

Don't know he like who in the family...

麦兜 cute cute video





后舍男生 - houshe boy






This houshe boy group is a famous group in the website of China due to the funny thing they do in front of the camera. Both of this guys have been invited to some famous talk shows or entertainment shows for the major Tv station.

If we surf in youtube, they will also a lot of those funny facing expression based on the theme of the music can be search for people in west. Seems like this is one of the trendy stuff among the world.

House searching

Recently just feeling a bit troublesome in searching for a house. I finally realize that searching for a house is very headache and need a lot of research. Besides the traffic and surrounding facilities, another factor that need to be counted in is Feng Sui. That is some certain rules that need to follow in choosing the house. Basically those better fengsui houses will be booked during the soft launch of the project.

That day went to Setia Alam to check for the show unit. It was found that the concept of the setia alam is very nice. However, not much choices can select in that area.

I just informed my sister regarding the environment in Setia Alam and bring back some brochure to her and my brother in law. My nephews were so curious and keep on asking me when I buy new house.

Yesterday, when I was back from work, one of my nephew asked, do you need a lorry to move your stuff to new house? I was so shocked and told him that I have not bought a house yet and where should I move to? Seems like those kids like me to move to new house since they can have new place to play.

Friday, January 26, 2007

Gymnastics - A real case during competition

Gymnastics - Nice to watch, but it painful ....

I Love You



This MTV is very touching. RS said "Happy Birthday" was very touuhing. I not sure whether she will cry if she see this MTV.

This is a very nice love song. The guy still wait the girl for 40 years. The girl's husband, in the other hand, let her to be reunion with the boy. Both guys are really love the girl until both of them need to scarify. This is really call "love". A very high level of love that not easy for us to handle or practice.

再一次拥有


This is a nice song. This song really touched my heart. I know this song during last year superstar, where one of the contestant, Mei Sim, sang this song. I was totally captured by the rhythm and the lyric of the song.

The song of the story will be deeply touched your heart if you really experience the situation as described in the song.

Fuji Mount

Tuesday, January 23, 2007

Happy Birthday to Me...

Within minutes, it will be my 31st birthday. It seems to be normal to me. Some people have quickly send "happy birthday" greeting to be before 12.00 a.m. Thanks for their caring in wishing me.

Should it be the middle of life for 31st years old? I start to feel confused whether I am 31 years old this year. I still feel that I am not as mature as my younger colleagues or friends, but I still manage to look younger as compare to them :) I feel that I still lack of something in this age. I also find that I am not mature in handling some issues. I still find that I am a big child trap in the adult body.

Taking about Happy Birthday, there is a hong kong movie, called Happy Birthday. One of my colleagues who went to watch the movie last Sunday. She was so touched by the story and make her Monday blue more blue. She said she could not withhold the tears in the eyes and burst into tears during the show. Why Happy Birthday is a sad movie. It should be a happy movie....

Just wishing myself happy birthday. I have many wishes.... most important is wish the world peace. And, I wish I can meet back someone I hope to meet this year ......



By the way, happy birthday to Candy... We share the same birthday. When we go out for Karaoke again?

Monday, January 22, 2007

Dim Sum During Lunch .....

Last weekend, I went out with MD, KKJM, SSO and Reb. During the hang out, suddenly MD mentioned that our group of people (which mean my working peers)had the the good team spirit. This was because my peers always seems to have one big gang of poeple going out for lunch, or going out for others activities, such as open house, karaoke or wedding ceremony.

Thinking back, yeah, it is true. Due to the working environment, we always work in the small area and helping each others. Hence, the the bonding become stronger among the team members as compare to other department.

My colleague who sit next to me, KH, is an expert in eating. Hence, during lunch hour, he will suggest good place to go. He is also a very good navigator. If you lost in the city, just call him, he will direct you the place you need to go. Such a live Google earth to us.

Sometimes, working is very stress, especially when you need to meet the goal or target. Hence, sometime we will go out for special lunch when there has special promotion, like KFC's salmon fish burger, San Francisco steak house's lunch promotion or Tai Toong's dim sum promotion. I like to eat Dim Sum. I am the one who will always agree to go for Dim Sum if there have promotion.It is fun to go out with your colleagues during lunch, and just chat as long as you can. All the working stress will seem to be erased in your mind.







To me, I like to go for karaoke. Hence, once in a while, I will organize to go for redbox karaoke. However, to my peers, this is the most suffering time for them. I don't know why they will suffer during karaoke since I am quite professional in singing. They should enjoy instead of suffer ... My colleagues are a bit weired.

Sunday, January 21, 2007

Traffic jam when you already late ...

Traffic jam, traffic jam, and traffic jam. After increase the tol fee in the LDP at the Puchong interchange this year, many people chose to use the old klang road to avoid the tol. This impact the traffic flow towards the federal highway near the midvalley. Some area, such as Cheras to federal highway, is affected. I never see the traffic is so heavy as compare to last year after the Cheras tol.


It has been the nightmare working in KL. Traffic jam is the major issue in KL, in addition to the atitude of the Malaysian drivers. If the atitude of the KL drivers can improved, the traffic jam issue can at least be improved to certain percentage. Just imagine in one 2 lines width road, the KL drivers can make it into 4-5 lines, in which the drivers drive their car and squeeze it in between the cars. The situation become worst when it come into the bottle neck of the road, where there has exit on the left.

I just wonder, when the traffic in KL can become smooth and everyone can enjoy their driving without any suffering?

Last year Birthday Breakaway

Last year, at this date, I went to Goumon Hotel, Port Dirkson, for a birthday breakaway trip. Last year, start to step into 30, hence need to spend one day there for some relaxation and to peace my mind from the heavy work load.


This is a very nice hotel to stay at. Facilities and rooms are good, the sea view are nice and not far from the public PD beach area. It is a nice place to stay.

Wednesday, January 17, 2007

The Cyber World

KKJM introduced me a radio link. Inside this web, we can find many link to Taiwan's radio. Found that it was a very nice web to browse through.

The technology growing very fast. Although we live in different places and different time zone, but with current technology, we feel like we are living next to each others. Thanks to the creation of Internet, SMS, 3G phone and satellite telecommunication. In addition, more digital electronics goods are in the market, such as Digital camera, video recorder, and MP3 players. People can share the daily life through the help of this telecommunication technology with the nice animated media files.

It help to shrink the distance of world, and connect to the friends and family that far way from you. Because of this technology, the boundary of the world become borderless.

However, when we take tons of picture using digital camera, do we really sit down and look at those photos? I think most of us just burn it into CD and keep it in cabinet, and finally become the antique in the house.

Another example is the email or MSN. It help to connect people so easily. Since it is so easy to write a mail or send a SMS to your family or friend, but do you really appreciate the words you say to the family and friends, or just send junk mail to your freinds?

Because of the ease of new technology, we start to feel that we have many time to contact others people, to send greeting to others until we put it as lowest priority. Everyday we may concentrate on the work, until we forget to call back or send a humble greeting to friends and family. We always assume we still have time to do that since it is very easy to contact people. This is a very common reason we give to ourself. Finally, we may just forget to do so.

I think I am. I always think I will contact them when I free. But in the final, I always forget to do so. I still hope some of friends still remember who I am. Sorry for not contacting you all.


SMS and MSN will also cause us to prefer to talk in silent mode with each other with words. Sometimes, it is good to do so, however, I think it will cause people to degrade their ability of speeching if they are used to MSN or SMS. For example, a good MSN chatter may not be a good speaker when meet offline. The feeling is different.

Internet bring us the best facilities in connecting people, but it depend on how we use. I totally agree that Internet can help us a lot, however, we still need to open our mouth and say out your feeling or story to others Don't let MSN or SMS bury your potential of talking.

Tuesday, January 16, 2007

The problem of being single ...

When you start to step into 30s, like me, and still single, there will be a lot of people who are very caring about you. They will wondering why you still single and will try all their best to help you to search for a partner. Sometime I feel so funny since our earth is needed more caring than me. Global warming, natural disaster, war, politics unstable and religious conflicts, those are the hot issue that we need to be taken care of instead of me.

Being single in Malaysia is not a fun thing to be, especially when you want to hanging out alone during the festive session, like Christmas Eve, New Year Eve or Valentine day. All the famous restaurant will be crowded with couples, all the shopping center will be crowded with couples, and I feel I am the alien inside. It force me to go back home and sit in front of the Astro for the whole day. Then suddenly I come out an idea, should it be good to have a restaurant or shopping center that are especially for the single? This will help the singles to increase their social groups.

Being asked by friends or relatives why you still don't have girl friend is a headache, especially Chinese New Year is on the corner. I think I better record down my answer with video clip inside in a DVD format and send to them. Hence, I would not repeat my answer thousand times with them. To me, does it really their issue? This is my life and I think I will know what should I do next.


The situation is different in USA. I don't feel any pressure when I eating alone or walking alone. May be their culture is different where they are more self-center and individualism.

As a result, I think it is good to not to ask or offer any of your friend who is single. I know those people are concern, but sometimes it may mean to the person. I think if I want to know another half now, I will consult and seek help from the persons who concern about me.

Monday, January 15, 2007

Secondary School Autograph

I cleaned my room, to check anything I don't want. I know my colleague who sit beside me will ask, does it include money you don't want? Just feel sorry to tell him, the money is what I need most. Just found an autograph book. I not sure whether I name it correctly, but I usually name it as autograph, a book when you ask someone to write some testimonial and paste a photo into it when we are in form 5, final year of our secondary school.

I try to use my fingers to count, how old was this book. To my surprise, it is out of my fingers count. I feel those words inside the book are written yesterday, but yet it has been gone through the 1997 economic crisis in Malaysia and survive until now.



Looking inside, most of my friends said I was smart, genius, hardworking... I know I am, but just curious why they don't say that I was handsome, although I am. But, in another way, they also complaint about my laugh, my over-expression when talking and the reaction of the body language. I feel weired of it. I always think I am good in talking manner.


I found a poem I wrote last time inside this book. I wrote this poem was to dedicate to my friends. During that time, we all became so close, and occasionally having gathering during that time. After having the fun time, it was coming to the end that we all have to sit SPM exam before we decided our next education level. SPM was a nightmare to all of us. We study day and night to prepare the exam, and finally we overcame it. Until now, we still have small reunion party or gathering during the Chinese New Year, but the attendance became lesser and lesser.

Below is the poem I wrote in the autograph book 13 years ago. 13 years? Time passing us without any acknowledgement.


很想,独个儿飞上黑空,挟颗星星,捉住瞬惦间的流星,
在星空上,刻上你们的名字,闪烁在黑纱, 永不泯灭。

每当望空时,立即看到你们的倩影,在天空一闪一烁,
在异方的你们,也看见我的倩影,在天空掠过。

我也想,独个儿飞上月亮,重遇失传已久的传说,
在月土上,建立了一个绿洲,一个桃花园。
每当你们看见婵娟是,也看到我苍翠的花园,
也起我昔日的真善美。

更想,独个儿飞上天空,躺在云上,与天共伴,
在云上,跳跳蹦蹦,以一双手,
把云形成一串串的回忆,
让陆上的你们,追溯往日的事情,少年编织的梦。

你们说,我能么?
其实,大家各有理想,毕业后各航向各自的地点。
或许,有一日你我找街头重遇,
可说,相见甚欢?

献给我所有的朋友,尤其“5L”

I think some of my friends are curious to know what is inside this book. Why not I share with you the sneak preview of this book.




It is the story of me until 18 years old, plus some additional testimonial in 20 years old. Am I look cute when I was a baby

Mount Fuji


I really like this song by Eason Chan. This song describe the couple break up at hillside of the Mount Fuji. The lyric is very meaningful and very touching. This song describe how to accept the reality when the love has came to the end. The most meaningful words in the lyric is the 人活到几岁算短 失恋只有更短. It says that we only live in the world at the shorter time, but the sadness during break up is even shorter. I do admit that it is hard during the break up, however, we still need to accept the truth. May be the break up is for the purpose of good although both are still loving each others.

陈奕迅-富士山下(粤)

拦路雨偏似雪花 饮泣的你冻吗
这风褛我给你 磨到有襟花
连调了职也不怕 怎么始终牵挂
苦心选中今天想车你回家

原谅我不再送花 伤口应要结疤
花瓣铺满 心里坟场才害怕
如若你非我不嫁 彼此终必火化
一生一世等一天需要代价

谁都只得那双手
靠拥抱亦难任你拥有
要拥有必先懂失去怎接受
曾沿着雪路浪游
为何为好事泪流
谁能凭爱意要富士山私有

何不把悲哀感觉
假设是来自你虚构
试管里找不到它染污眼眸
前尘硬化像石头
随缘地抛下便逃走
我绝不罕有 往街里绕过一周
我便化乌有

情人节不要说穿 只敢抚你发端
这种姿态可会令你更心酸
留在汽车里取暖 应该怎么规劝
怎么可以将手腕忍痛划损

人活到几岁算短 失恋只有更短
归家需要几里路谁能预算
忘掉我跟你恩怨 樱花开了几转
东京之旅一早比一世遥远

靠拥抱亦难为你拥有
你还嫌不够
我把这陈年风褛
送赠你解咒

When Love is to the End...


Listen to this song, and I deeply touched by the lyrics of the song. She wrote this song when she ended the relationship with her boy friend. The song is so touching, and the words vividly describe the feeling when love is to the end ...


梁咏琪-原来爱情这么伤

我睁开眼睛 却感觉不到天亮
东西吃一半 莫名其妙哭一场
我忍住不想 时间变得更漫长
也与你有关 否则又开始胡思乱想

我日月无光 忙得不知所以然
找朋友交谈 其实全帮不上忙
以为会习惯 有你在才是习惯
你曾住在我心上 现在空了一个地方

原来爱情这么伤 比想象中还难
泪水总是不听话 幸福躲起来不声不响
太多道理太牵强 道理全是一样
说的时候很简单 爱上后却正巧打乱

只想变的坚强
强到能够去忘
无所谓悲伤
只要学会抵抗

原来爱情这么伤
原来爱情是这样 这样峰回路转
泪水明明流不干 瞎了眼还要再爱一趟
有一天终于打完思念的一场战
回过头再看一看
原来爱情那么伤
下次还会不会这样

Sunday, January 14, 2007

Flight of the Pheonix

Just watched the movie "Flight of the Phoenix" in Star Movie channel. This movie is about a group of air crash survivors who stranded in the Gobi Dessert with low chances of survival. Facing this brutal environment, they realize thei need to do something impossible in order to get them out of the dessert.


This movie, to me, is nice to watch. Besides the movie effects are great, such as dessert storm and the crashing of the air plane, the story line is good. I find that some of the dialogue in this movie are very meaningful.


For example, Liddle (by Scott Michael Campbell) asked Captain Towns (by Dennis Quiad), what does a man need to have to be alive? Liddle said that man need someone to be loved, if not, he must have the hope to be alive. If none of them, just give them work to do. To me it is true, love and hope are the main inspiration for us in live.


Another meaningful dialouge is when Sammi (by Jacob Vargas) asked Rady ( by Kevork Malikyan) were you religious? Rady said he was not, but he believed in spiritual. He said that religion separate people.


The funny part of the movie is the smugglers in the dessert. Since the story take place in Gobi dessert, why the smugglers can speak Cantonese (Southern China dialect).


The story also reflects the nature behaviour of human being in the real world when we compete to each other to survive. In the real word, sometime we force to team work with someone who is ego,isolated and bad altitude due to the expertise of the person he has.


There were less than ten persons who stranded in the dessert, but it showed variety of characters in that group. Hence it is no doubt they are more characters in the working area. Human relationship is so complex and tricky due to this diversity.

Saturday, January 13, 2007

Fetching Bride .... 接新娘....

甜酸苦辣 - Sweet, Sour, Bitter and Spicy ..


姐妹团 - Sister Troop (Guys also can?)


费思解疑 - Solving Problem before to fetch the Bride

Bobo and Robert

Mmm... May be someone is curious why this blog is called "bobo-robert". Bobo, is my nick name since I was in secondary school. All my secondary school called me this name. Even when I entered university, my course mate still called me Bobo. This is a very simple name to remember. Even last time there was a male character in the Hong Kong sitcom also called Bobo. Most of my friend thought that I have this name after the show. However, I have this name few years back before the shows. I think I need to patent my name.


For my juniors in secondary school, they prefer to call me Ah Bo. May be they found that calling me Ah Bo will be much more respect.


Things changed when I start working. All the people there like to called your surname. In addition, less people have the surname of Foo in my company. Hence, they usually called my Foo. Like "Foo, your call", or "Foo, where is my pencil?"


Then, when I start to go online for MSN or chatting, people like to ask you what your name. If I give my name as Bobo, they will thought I am a female. Hence, I just simply pick a name as Robert. When I used this name for a certain time in cyber world, I feel comfortable with this name. As a result, I also called myself Robert. Because of this name, I have another Spanish name of Roberto.

You better know your Father-in-law's car plate number ....

Cheers... 干杯!!

Cheering to the guests from the host ....


Cheers .... 干杯!!


饮胜!!

Before the Wedding Dinner ...

Time for the bride to prepare ...


Photo taken before the wedding dinner ....

Friday, January 12, 2007

Candid Shot during Candy's Wedding

Peek Yun's Wedding ... continue

It was 6th of January, when all of us prepared to head towards Kuantan for our beloved friend's wedding. We have been waiting this moment for her. We all were so happy and eagerly to go there as early as possible during that day.







I went there with my ex-housemate (B106), together with two of my friends (445 - 1 of them was the virtual resident there) that we have never been meet for almost five years after graduate. When we meet back, we start to chat a lot, talking about our current jobs, our daily live, and our point of view regarding our country. It had been a very nice conversation when we on the road. It bring me back to the university time, the moments we have, and of course some interesting incidents that happened in which I only know today after several years.





The wedding dinner was nice, my friend was very beautiful that day. She looked like Eurasian and she looked beautiful and gorgeous during that time. We have nice time there. The wedding was nice, and the small reunion we have there was priceless. I really appreciated it.


After the dinner, we still have time to go to Teluk Cempedak. This is the place where some of us been there for almost 9 years ago during the semester break. That beautiful beach help us to recall back the happy moments we shared there before.


The following day was the wedding ceremony according to Chinese tradition. Since we are the friends for the bride, we need to prepare some hard task for the bridegroom and his friends before bridegroom can bring over our friend to his house. I was the leader of the task organiser. I have prepare some simple but yet challenging tasks for the bridegroom and his friends before the bride being invited out from her room to start the wedding ceremony.


It was such a nice wedding ceremony. We all were happy. Happy because of her, and also happy because we can reunion and share this magnificent moments together. Next stop, whose wedding?

Thursday, January 11, 2007

Peek Yun's Wedding

Partial member for B106 and 445. Photo taken at 7th of January 2007 in Kuantan.


"Marry Me ......." "I do......."


Such a sweetest moment that last forver.... Sweet as Candy........

My Colleagues Reaction

They are so many reactions when I start to introduce my blog to my friends and colleagues. My colleagues are so worry that some of their story will be shared in this blog and want to start to find some lawsuit advices if my blog have invaded their privacy life. However, I think they are over worrying since I will have my ethic in writing the blog.

I know some of the pictures during our department's team building cannot be shared. If not, I think my ex-colleague will hate me forever. Those pictures are for internal used only. Hence, I know what to be written and what to be censored. Today, as usual, traffic is extremely jammed in after the Cheras toll. Cars could not move. Just imagine 8-10 lines of cars will finally come into a bottle neck where the width of the road can only allocate 3-4 lines of cars. Such a night mare and painful experience in driving to work.

Working is not a funny thing to do. Too much things to do. It is good to building up a good relationship with your work partners. Then work life will be a bit of relax. However, my working area become a bit quiet since one of my colleagues have changed to another company. He used to have a lot of story to tell us. Although he is not a joker, but the story he told is very interesting, and funny.

Well, we still have some fun talk especially during the lunch time today. Especially we mentioned about "Call" and the most interesting part was, when we talked about the new idea for "The Ring". Those funny and crazy talks did cheer up our working spirit after lunch.

Wednesday, January 10, 2007

A Wonderful 2006



Looking back the 2006, it was such a wonderful and meaningful year for me. Too much stories surrounded me throughout the year, either from me or from other people I knew. Year of 2006 was the time when I really understand love and being loved, realized the feeling of being accepted and being rejected, and deeply felt the happiness and sadness in my life. Each of the these feeling are coming from the story I personally experinced or the story that happened to people I know.





Life is rushing. Those stories I have are fading through time. I think it is a time for me to write down those humble memories before it become shallow in my mind. Hence, I will start to share to everyone the story I have, the story that I still vividly remember or the story that will happen in this blog. Those stories are humble and simple, but every great things are coming from the humble things. Like the moment we shares in the past, are priceless.


To me, 2006 was a very meaningful year. It was like riding a roller coaster in the life, where there have moments where some family issues occurred, where some conflicts occured within my colleagues, where a suddenly meet back with my old friends, where some new friends were made, where the happy wedding ceremony for my housemate was held, where have chances to revisit USA, where pressure and tension pumped up in my work, where I suddenly felt touched by some incidents I have........ It is a long list to go, where there are to much things happened in 2006.




2007, is a year to look back, and is a year to look forward. Looking back, like seeing the mighty history in the past although those moments are humble. Humble make great things. Looking forward, is another huge uncertainty to go, but yet is fun and challenging to go.

Tuesday, January 9, 2007

The Begining - Introduction

It used to be my dream to become a writer or journalist. However, I end up to become a technical person in engineering field. I used to write down my experiences, or the moments I shared with my friends, or other person life into my diary when I was in teenage time. With the blog, I think I can fulfil my dream of writing in the e-blog in this cyber world. This is a place where I can share the story I experience in my life time.